Ara: “I Cooked Everyday even as the Breadwinner in my last Marriage”, now Open to Dating Younger Guys. She's hurting !!!

39 year old drummer Ara ‘s 2 year marriage ended
in 2013 , and after discussing her regrets this
August, now she is opening up to Punch about
being a mumu (fool) for love, and her
newfound openness to dating younger men.
The Type of Wife She Was
“I am the most submissive wife. I am
‘mumu’ (fool) for love. You can ask my ex, he can
tell you. There was never a day I didn’t ask him
what I should cook even though I was the
breadwinner. I would always ask him what he
wanted. And whatever he said, if we didn’t have
it, I would jump on an okada and enter the
market to go and buy the stuff. I am a hopeless
lover.”
Dating Younger Men
“When I meet the right person and fall in love, I
will consider marriage. I really want to fall in love
again. I don’t believe in marriage just for its sake.
If a younger guy comes up to me, I don’t mind
dating the person. I don’t mind marrying
somebody who I am older than. I have spoken to
a couple of people and they don’t see anything
wrong with it. If the person has a mature mind
and is committed, then it is not a big deal.”
On the Status of her & her Ex’s Relationship
“We have a child together. My boy is six years
already. He has remarried. I am not envious that
he got married again. God forbid! When he calls
me, I always ask him if his wife isn’t around. I
would also ask him if his wife knows that I am
not interested in him. I don’t know her and I
don’t know her name. I wouldn’t want her to feel
I want to take her husband again. So I tell him I
hope the wife knows that I am not interested and
that his calling me is just to find out about his
son. I wouldn’t want to make any woman
unhappy.”

Plagiarised: bellanaija